Why I’m Always Glad To Have Written

Recently, I’ve received two completely unexpected notes from fallible readers. They didn’t arrive via the comments section (Um….it’s mostly spam, I’m afraid. Feel free to change that!), but rather in personal correspondence.

One letter started out with these words: “Two years ago, you sent me a letter of comfort over the loss of my parent….” Do you know how it feels when you don’t QUITE remember doing something, but suddenly feel awfully glad to know you did? That’s the emotion that came over me when I read this lovely note.

The writer went on to say she was sorry it had taken her so long to respond, but that my words had touched her and helped in in a time of need. I cried when I read this, because for me to be counted among those who even occasionally bless someone else with encouragement, comfort, joy, or empathy makes all my feeble attempts worthwhile.

The second letter came through a private facebook message. The writer described herself as a “long-time fallible reader,” but upon seeing her signature and her own blog address, I knew exactly who she was. How could I forget her? We have commiserated together over more than one of our shared life experiences—-but admittedly, it had been a while.

She wrote to ask my advice on how to proceed with issues related to the care of an elderly parent. Of course, I am no expert, having only The Moms in my personal arsenal when it comes to acting as an advocate for the aged. But then she went on to say that even if I didn’t know the answer to her question, she wanted me to know how much my stories about our ladies had meant to her.

She appreciated the humor, the pathos, and the honesty with which I described the unfolding events of our lives. She said I had helped her as she referred back in her memory to some of my situations and applied them to the current difficulty she’s facing.

Again, I was completely astounded to receive such a letter. And blessed beyond what I can express here.

But this is what I want you to know: If you never write anything more than a sympathy card or a thank you note or a facebook comment, your writing means something. Your words touch others, affect their hearts and minds, bring them clarity, offer them wisdom, and—-always most importantly—-demonstrate your love.

Never underestimate the power of your words. Others are reading, and listening, and taking those words to heart. You’ll never hear from most of your readers. But every once in a while, one will reach out to you.

And then through your tears, you’ll remember all over again why you continue to write.

Posted by Katy on 07/07/09 at 06:03 PM

Fallible Comments...

This is so true, Katy. And I find if I don't act on the thought or impulse (the Holy SPirit nudging me), I miss an opportunity.
Have I told you lately how much I love your writing? What a blessing it has been to add you to the list of people I care about (and we haven't even met, but we have the birthday thing and the Irish thing). Be blessed today, sweet friend...
Posted by Sandi Thompson on 07/11/09 at 06:27 PM
Beautiful, Katy. And just what I needed to hear today, when I'm limping along in my writing projects. Thank you for your writing, that encourages and challenges and makes me laugh on the days I've forgotten to.
Posted by Hannah on 07/20/09 at 04:46 PM
I don't even know how I stumbled upon your page, all my weaving about the internet tonight. But, I am called to write a book, and, in my fear, wondering what I would have to say that would touch others. I read the FB comment you received and the light bulb went off-no matter what I write, it will be meaningful to others because God has called me to write it and my words will be filled with love.
Thank you for your lovely site.
Posted by Jacqueline M. Arnold on 08/04/09 at 05:36 PM
So true about the influence of words - you read from others writing and what you write to be read by others. i used to read a forum's "motivation" section and believe me how it affected making my decisions for the future years of my professional life. I do regard them. Writers, (good writers) get "revelation" from God who influence, they are really special people.
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Personal blog of christian writer & fallible mom Katy McKenna Raymond in Kansas City, Missouri Katy is represented by Greg Johnson at WordServe Literary Read more Katy at LateBoomer.net Follow Katy on Twitter Follow Katy on Facebook 123 Recent Posts Try Becoming Brenda Starr Off Beat Scattered That’s It So I’ve Finally Signed With An Agent. Now What? The Spoon Sciatica Sweetheart A Woman’s Train of Thought Has No Caboose However much we own, we are all still living on borrowed time After all, when restaurants shrink portions, they don’t shrink prices. As with everything in life, balance is key. Slow down, you move too fast… Yeah, I know. I have issues. Search Advanced Search Syndicate Login E me at katy @ ngenius.com	Why I’m Always Glad To Have Written Recently, I’ve received two completely unexpected notes from fallible readers. They didn’t arrive via the comments section (Um….it’s mostly spam, I’m afraid. Feel free to change that!), but rather in personal correspondence. One letter started out with these words: “Two years ago, you sent me a letter of comfort over the loss of my parent….” Do you know how it feels when you don’t QUITE remember doing something, but suddenly feel awfully glad to know you did? That’s the emotion that came over me when I read this lovely note. The writer went on to say she was sorry it had taken her so long to respond, but that my words had touched her and helped in in a time of need. I cried when I read this, because for me to be counted among those who even occasionally bless someone else with encouragement, comfort, joy, or empathy makes all my feeble attempts worthwhile. The second letter came through a private facebook message. The writer described herself as a “long-time fallible reader,” but upon seeing her signature and her own blog address, I knew exactly who she was. How could I forget her? We have commiserated together over more than one of our shared life experiences—-but admittedly, it had been a while. She wrote to ask my advice on how to proceed with issues related to the care of an elderly parent. Of course, I am no expert, having only The Moms in my personal arsenal when it comes to acting as an advocate for the aged. But then she went on to say that even if I didn’t know the answer to her question, she wanted me to know how much my stories about our ladies had meant to her. She appreciated the humor, the pathos, and the honesty with which I described the unfolding events of our lives. She said I had helped her as she referred back in her memory to some of my situations and applied them to the current difficulty she’s facing. Again, I was completely astounded to receive such a letter. And blessed beyond what I can express here. But this is what I want you to know: If you never write anything more than a sympathy card or a thank you note or a facebook comment, your writing means something. Your words touch others, affect their hearts and minds, bring them clarity, offer them wisdom, and—-always most importantly—-demonstrate your love. Never underestimate the power of your words. Others are reading, and listening, and taking those words to heart. You’ll never hear from most of your readers. But every once in a while, one will reach out to you. And then through your tears, you’ll remember all over again why you continue to write. Posted by Katy on 07/07/09 at 06:03 PM Fallible Comments... This is so true, Katy. And I find if I don't act on the thought or impulse (the Holy SPirit nudging me), I miss an opportunity. Have I told you lately how much I love your writing? What a blessing it has been to add you to the list of people I care about (and we haven't even met, but we have the birthday thing and the Irish thing). Be blessed today, sweet friend... Posted by Sandi Thompson on 07/11/09 at 06:27 PM Beautiful, Katy. And just what I needed to hear today, when I'm limping along in my writing projects. Thank you for your writing, that encourages and challenges and makes me laugh on the days I've forgotten to. Posted by Hannah on 07/20/09 at 04:46 PM I don't even know how I stumbled upon your page, all my weaving about the internet tonight. But, I am called to write a book, and, in my fear, wondering what I would have to say that would touch others. I read the FB comment you received and the light bulb went off-no matter what I write, it will be meaningful to others because God has called me to write it and my words will be filled with love. Thank you for your lovely site. Posted by Jacqueline M. Arnold on 08/04/09 at 05:36 PM So true about the influence of words - you read from others writing and what you write to be read by others. i used to read a forum's "motivation" section and believe me how it affected making my decisions for the future years of my professional life. I do regard them. Writers, (good writers) get "revelation" from God who influence, they are really special people. Posted by iva on 08/22/09 at 08:50 AM I like this article. Not just this article, but many articles on this website. Programmers are human too. But some questions remain: what if the good job has a bad salary and vice-versa? This is a frequent dilemma for many people. Posted by adult family home in washington on 07/29/10 at 07:04 AM <a href="http://www.onedresses.com">Cheap Prom Dresses</a> <a href="http://www.onedresses.com">Homecoming Dresses</a> on best wedding dresses for 2009 and 2010. You can find latest collection of woman's dresses and casual dresses on this site <a href="http://www.onedresses.com">Quinceanera Dresses</a> Best canon Coffee Mugs! Funny, Cute, & Humorous Unique designs. Also find Travel Mugs, Coffee Cups also, or Create Photo Personalized Mugs & Drinkware Posted by dress on 09/09/10 at 08:18 PM It was very interesting for me to read the blog. Thanx for it. I like such topics and everything that is connected to this matter. I would like to read more on that blog soon. Posted by Toronto Debt Consolidation on 10/17/10 at 10:45 PM Aristotle stated 'Happiness is the only pleasure we seek for its own sake'. Through all actions, tasks and daily routines; we are seeking happiness. It is the sole emotion which tops all others, and drives us in so many different ways to achieve it. Posted by inspirational quotes on 11/22/10 at 10:38 PM Page 1 of 1 pages Commenting is not available in this weblog entry. Next entry: I Can't Believe We're Finally Here Previous entry: Happiness Is Locking In A Low Rate With The Man Of Your Dreams << Back to main


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